There’s a lot of people lost through live. Most of them doesn’t know what they’re doing and many other just try’s to be everything at the same time. It’s really difficult to explain but the best way you can go through this tiny still big world is to live as one. What I’m trying to say is that you are only one man or girl, only one individual, one entity. You have to look up for who you are, what can and want to do and make yourself up so you can understand what and where you are. It could be very abstract and even be the same argument to other’s life questions but this way you will aproach to understand why are you here and maybe get rid of the control ilusion.